World Christian Leadership And Training Ministry

Motherhood in Marriage

Motherhood in Marriage is a Blessing from God!

"Therefore, as the Holy Spirit says; Today if you hear his voice, do not harden your hearts as in the rebellion." - Hebrews 3:7-8

"Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with promise: that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth. - " (Ephesians 6:1)

God sees us all as His children. (That is those who believe in His Son Jesus as their Lord and Savior) He set parents over each one of us to love us, nurture us, care for us, teach us, correct us, discipline us, and to release us. It has always been God's plan for each one of us to be raised by both parents. However, in the course of life, that does not always happen for many reasons. It is one thing for wars, accidents, disasters in nature, sickness and disease to take the life of one or both parents, but it is entirely different when individuals decide to have and raise children on their own accord, without the vows of marriage.

God did make provision for children who lost their parents. He even made provision for the loss of one parent. His provision is called the "church." The foundation of the church is family not individuals. The men of the church are to provide the father figure for these children and the women of the church are to provide the mother figure for these children. I am not talking about the "it takes a village" nonsense to raise a child. It takes men and women of God to raise children within the Body of Christ, and to raise them in accordance with the culture of Christianity. The key factor in raising children is the church family, which is the Body of Jesus Christ. There were virtually thousands of single parents after WWII. However, these single parents along with their children belonged to local churches and attended them regularly. They lived by moral standards and they were guided by the same principles that guided the Founding Fathers of our Nations, the Ten Commandments of God.

Mothers learned to cling close to their church families, as well as, their own families in order to raise their children. They understood that they were not equipped to be both mother and father. Their pastors and elders, fathers and brothers provided male role models for their sons and daughters. They were not swayed into abandoning their children because they might be missing out on life. They did not buy into the anti-male rhetoric of losing their identity as a person by being a mother to their children. Finally, women did not have to compete against men to "prove" they were just as good or better because they understood that God created them. They realized they were not a mistake of nature or an accident of "evolution" trying to correct itself. They were fulfilled as a person by being a women.

In the years following WWII, marriages began to flourish and families were restored all across America . Family values were at the forefront of society and children honored their fathers and their mothers. Although, on the surface everything appeared to be wonderful, underneath society was in for a hellish change. There was peace in the world and a renewed feeling of safety in society. People began to take life for granted. Parents began to listen to the "scholars" of society on marriage, child raising, sex, moral conduct, and the role of religion. They were being told that they were no longer responsible or accountable for their actions because the era of no shame and someone else is to blame was here. They were being taught to trust their feeeeeelings and be guided by their emooooootions in order to get the most out of life.

In reality, our Nation was producing a generation of thinkers and doers, of collegians and entrepreneurs, inventors and artisans, preachers and teachers, scientist and economist, lawyers and politicians, judges and leaders. However, all to soon, these world shakers and money makers would transform into self-centered liars and deceivers bent on changing the moral fabric of our society. Their "survival of the fittest" mentality would, one day, produce radical and rebellious extremes in human behavior. As teenagers and young adults they would usher in an era of disrespect for authority, disregard of rules and regulations, and a total disgust for anything moral. Their right is wrong and good is bad culture would bring a halt to the progress of our civil society. Later, these extremists would be affectionately referred to as "baby boomers."

Right in the middle of the greatest move of prosperity in our Nation's history came the greatest attack of Satan against family and family values in over six thousand years. He would use the rise of this "free" society to undermine everything moral, sacred, holy, and Christian. Just as Satan used the "fatherhood" movement in Germany to produce Nazism, he would use this opportunity to produce a movement that would destroy the family as the foundation of society in America and around the world. This "baby boomer" generation would take pride, ego, selfishness, rebellion, lying, hard heartedness, immorality, depravity, homosexuality, distain for family, and a hatred for American values to an all time high. Family life would never be the same again.

Satan's main attack would be against motherhood. He remembered God's words of punishment in the Garden of Eden, Genesis 3:15 "And I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your seed (demons) and her "Seed (Jesus)" (women do not have seed) (Galatians 3:16 )." His first attempt was to introduce murder into the world through Cain's murder of Abel (Genesis 4:8). His next major attempt was to murder all of the first born infants in Egypt (Exodus 1:15 -16). Next, he used King Herod to murder every male from 2 years old and younger after the birth of Jesus (Matthew 2:16 ). As always, Satan's attempts would end in his failure to accomplish his purpose.

When his plan to destroy family life by murdering male children did not work, he turned his focus on fathers. However, his attempt to destroy men and fathers through world wars also backfired in his face. Now, he would fervently pull out all stops and give his attention to the destruction of family by attacking women and motherhood by the abolishment of the marriage covenant. He established "shacking-up" (living together in sin), abortions as a means of birth control, and homosexuality as an open lifestyle (deathstyle) as acceptable ways to live and behave.

Satan would use the impetus of this "free" society to launch another attack against family and family values through the "Feminist Movement." The Feminist Movement has become one of the greatest weapons in Satan's arsenal for the destruction and complete disestablishment of marriage and family life as God created it to be. He is called the great Deceiver because he is a master of disguise in presenting his plans. He is called the great Counterfeiter because he counterfeits everything God creates for good. The things he uses seem so right, so fair and proper, but they quickly turn into sin, destruction and death for all those who are drawn in.

The Feminist Movement and the fight for women's rights is not the same thing. To fight for one's rights in a truly free society is a good and moral cause. However, to establish an organization based on the hatred of men, abandonment of motherhood, loathing of children, dissolution of marriage, and the redefining of God and Christianity is "evil" at its core. Satan is the father of evil and this is absolutely his plan.

The Feminist Movement not only attempts to redefine the role of women and marriage, but it also attempts to redefine Christianity. Women who want to have their "own" children without marrying (husband or family) are self-centered with a total disregard for the well being of the child. Women can never be both mother and father to a child, even when a woman tries to behave like a man. The psychological experts can say what that want and can produce all the statistics they can make up, but God established family. God created man and woman and established His order for their lives. It does not matter if the majority rules against marriage and against God's order, God's order for family and marriage will not change. God established husbands and wives as parents, not two males or two females -(Ephesians 5:22 – 6:4) (see Marriage and Relationshipss).

Who would devise a plan for women that would destroy their posterity in only one generation? Who could hate them so much that they remove every trace of their existence as a person, by convincing them not to marry and have children? There is only one creature that would want that for their life and his name is Satan. God's plan is to replenish the earth with offspring from generation to generation. Satan's plan is to have abortion after abortion to remove mankind from the earth. He disguised abortion as a plan of not bringing an"unwanted" child into the world. If you do not want to have a child, then don't have sex! (This is not rocket science.)

How many times have you heard someone say, I cannot believe God let me get pregnant? God did not let you do anything. It is your free will and one day, you will be held accountable for how you use it. Abortion is Satan's ultimate birth control plan (John 10:10 ). He encourges people to have all the sex they want because there are no consequences for their actions. He disguises sex outside of marriage as a good thing and not the sin that it is. It is his plan to destroy anything that gets in the way of having this"free love" (even if it is a child). God's plan is for women to bare children and to bare them without pain in childbirth. [Genesis 3:16 ; That was Eve's punishment, but Jesus has removed the curse of the Law and restored women in righteousness. It says in I Timothy 2:15, "women will be saved in childbearing," Paul is not talking about salvation, but restoration to God's orginal plan for women to bare childen (Jackie Mize's book: Supernatural Childbirth)].

Again, the Feminist Movement is not about helping women gain anything. It is about controlling women and redefining who they are as people. It is about he destruction of marriage and family values and the redefining of marriage to fit the desires of the flesh. It is a self-centered, hate filled, lust driven movement designed to undermine Christianity in particular and family in general because of the stability they brings to society.

This message and all of the messages on this website are for Christian men and women. It is for Believers who are seeking to become Disciples of Jesus Christ, doers of the Word of God. Please think and pray about your choices when it comes to joining various organizations in the world. Ask the Holy Spirit for discernment and ask your pastor for advice and counsel. If it does not match the Word of God, then don't get involved. God's plan for our lives is clear and written down for all to see for themselves. If it is God's plan, then there are no losers.

The Book of Romans chapter 12:2 says, "Do not conform any longer to the ways of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind…" We are not of the world, but of the Culture of Christianity, the Culture of Jesus. We are God's children and He expects us to honor Him. God promise us that "it" (life) will be well with us and we will have long life just for obeying His commands. If God is your Father, then obey Him. If He is not, then I pray for your salvation.

May is the month in which we honor our mothers. We all must pray for mothers everywhere because of the attacks and plans for destruction that the enemy has toward them. It is an honor and privilege to be hand picked by God to be a mother. God says "children are a blessing" not a curse or a burden. God established marriage to be a blessing in our lives. It is one of His vehicles to spread the Gospel of Jesus Christ to the world. Godly marriages can change lives, neighborhoods, communities, cities, states, and even nations. Everything God has for us is good, if it is not good, then it is not God. The world can't see it because the world doesn't know our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Know Him and don't let the world determine who you are, let God.

Praise the Lord